SCBWI Conferences

Yesterday, I had my first job interview outside of my college. It was a scary and exciting experience, and overall it went well. As I got ready for it, I was reminded strongly of how I get ready for SCBWI conferences, so I thought I'd do a post on it.

Whenever I go to a SCBWI conference, I follow certain guidelines that I have set up for myself. My first guideline is: The first step to success is looking your best!

The first time I walked into the summer SCBWI conference, I was surprised at how many people were wearing jeans and sweats. Many of these people were just there to learn, so it makes sense for them to be comfortable. But for those who wanted to network, I think it's a mistake. Part of the conference is marketing yourself as a new author, and you want to show that you know how to market yourself.

When I go to a conference, I always go for a cute business casual. I wear dresses, boots, business jackets, and jewelry. I put on makeup and style my hair. Normally, I'm the girl with no makeup, sweats, and my hair in a bun, and I find it a pain to wake up extra early because I love my sleep. But with hundreds of other people at the conference, how else am I going to stand out?

The next thing I do is let my passion and enthusiasm for children's literature shine. I want everyone to know that writing for children is my life, even though I haven't been published yet. I smile, put a little bounce in my step, and talk with confidence. At first, the confidence is fake. I can't tell you how many times I've walked past an editor or agent, trying to build the courage to start a conversation. After all, these people are my heroes, and not because I'm hoping they will publish me. They've dedicated their lives to producing children's books.

But then I take a deep breath, walk over, and open my mouth. The conversation is so easy that I wondered why I needed to build up courage. These people are wonderful, and we share the same passion. Of course it's easy!

Although my guidelines won't get me a book contract or an agent -- only my book itself can do that -- I feel like they do help me to stand out. Once, one of the SCBWI workers stopped me and said, "Wow, you're smiling. That's so nice to see! Almost everyone else has this tense look on their face." That comment gave me confidence, but it also made me sad that so many people are so stressed out. The conference is an opportunity. It isn't your one shot to make it. If that's what you think, the conference isn't right for you anyway. Just remember to relax, enjoy yourself, and look your best, and the conference will be a breeze.